Juvenile guide to make out your next semesters
Let's be honest, university isn't always "the best time of our lives" or at least not all the time.
Just like in high school, the university causes anxiety in many of us, from personal experience I can say that I have (literally) fled from the people of the university, but I also understand that many times it is necessary to leave our comfort zone in order not to fall in episodes of depression. That's why I'm sharing 5 things that have helped me survive college.
1. Find a hobby
In my case I had some problems with this. I am the type of person who finds it difficult to be consistent with something and even more if I am not automatically amazing or successful at it but I have challenged myself to go climbing in the gym at least twice a week and rock at least once once a month on stone.
Obviously everyone is a different case, one of my best friends has a hobby of singing and goes to singing classes every week.
2. Go out with yourself
Many people say that this is difficult but the truth is that I love being alone most of the time because I have very little patience so I know places, go for a coffee and stay to watch Netflix with my cat instead of going out for a drink. bar, are my favorite activities.
3. Look for the positive side
Start with little steps, not all of us love to throw ourselves into things and that's it. Make it your purpose to look for 3 or 5 positive things every day. You will realize that within the bad there are good things or people.
4. Get out of your comfort zone
This is the most difficult, making new friends, doing new things that require the social presence of others, etc. However, if you realize, nobody cares what you do, we are all full of doubts and anxiety that do not let us see things well.
5. Take care of what is important to you
Sometimes we don't realize it but there are little people, animals or little things that are valuable to us. In my case it is my family and my friends. They are people who have always supported me and helped me get ahead and I am infinitely grateful for them, also if I have learned anything it is that friends come before love, they will almost certainly always be there. BUT the most valuable thing is yourself, remember that you are who you are thanks to you, focus on caring for and loving the person you were, are and will be <3.
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